18 March 2025
Flooding caused by ex-tropical Cyclone Alfred was extensive, and many communities in northern NSW and south-east Queensland continue to face challenges. Many people are still in emergency accommodation or facing a huge clean up.
Recovery for many people and communities will take time. While circumstances like these understandably bring up a range of stresses, there is no excuse for violence or abuse.
If you are worried about your behaviour at this time, or you are worried about a man in your life, the Men’s Referral Service can help.
Natural disasters and domestic and family violence
Research has shown that family violence often increases during and after natural disasters. The stress, loss, and disruption caused by such events can add to other ongoing issues and contribute to harmful behaviours including patterns of control, abuse and violence.
As a man you may feel a pressure from within yourself or from others to behave a certain way or be a stereotypical male in the face of the challenges ahead. This includes remaining stoic, handling stress on your own, feeling the need to take control, or feeling like you can’t reach out for support. These feelings can contribute to behaviours that are abusive or violent – and this is not OK.
Using control and violence is a choice, and there are better choices you can make in your family and relationships.
Recognising when you are struggling and seeking help is a sign of strength. An indication that you are trying to be the best man, partner, father or family member you can be.
By reaching out for support, you can find healthier, more respectful ways to cope with your emotions and stress, ultimately protecting your loved ones and yourself.
How we can help: 24/7 support, 365 days a year
Operated by No to Violence, the Men’s Referral Service is the national front door to services that can support you to change your behaviour and keep those around you safe.
The Men’s Referral Service can link you to specialist men’s behaviour change programs and other services in your area including parenting programs, alcohol and other drug programs, health supports and accommodation services.
When you call the service you will:
- be listened to without judgement
- have a chance to tell us what you need
- be provided with counselling support and other information
- learn about services in your area that can help you over the coming weeks and months.
We have an extensive database of services across Australia including in the regions hit by ex-tropical Cyclone Alfred.
Call 1300 766 491 any time of day or night, all year round.
